Musings...

  Marriage This is a delicate topic but I’m putting down what I’ve observed in so many years of my life. What I think marriage should be and could be and what it definitely should not be. So read it with an open mind and a grain of salt:-)  They say marriages are made in heaven, but so are thunder and lightning! So if someone was dreaming of a smooth sail, it’s a harsh wake up call. Reality is almost always different than what we imagine it to be. It’s true for both parties, not just one.  Reading books and watching movies and listening to love songs, we all make an image of marriage in our heads. It’s true for both sexes. Girls are looking for a knight in shining armor and guys are looking for a princess they can save! So most marriages start with this kind of a premise and therein lies the trouble. The idea of marriage has been romanticized for way too long. We need to define marriage very differently than it has been defined for ages. Make it a real thing, not a romantic notion. Tel